Comments on: What to do When Your Child Says, “I Hate You.” https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/ Parent Coach for Imperfect Families Sun, 17 Dec 2017 15:36:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: «Мама, я тебя ненавижу!» https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/#comment-26642 Sun, 17 Dec 2017 15:36:46 +0000 http://imperfectfamilies.com/?p=3772#comment-26642 […] Источник: Imperfect Families […]

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]]> By: janifer https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/#comment-20851 Mon, 04 Apr 2016 19:48:14 +0000 http://imperfectfamilies.com/?p=3772#comment-20851 Goodday. I was so blessed in reading this article, it is my prayer to raise my little girl in the footsteps of our Savior Jesus. This article was so inspiring and a real blessing to me as a mother. Do you perhaps have a group where mommies share this type of knowledge with other mommies?

]]> By: Zulfaa https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/#comment-20108 Fri, 05 Feb 2016 08:34:02 +0000 http://imperfectfamilies.com/?p=3772#comment-20108 I always hear I hate u at bath time or when she cant get her way it use to get to me at first but thanks to u I look at the statment in a different way I approach the situation ad calm as I can…..

]]> By: Nicole Schwarz https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/#comment-20104 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 18:12:40 +0000 http://imperfectfamilies.com/?p=3772#comment-20104 In reply to Rebecca.

Hi! Thank you for sharing your experience!

Feelings are not disrespectful in themselves, but there is a respectful and a less-than-respectful way of expressing these feelings. With time, teaching and practice, kids can learn to express feelings in a different way, like your daughter is learning to do!

]]> By: Rebecca https://imperfectfamilies.com/child-says-i-hate-you/#comment-20102 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 13:35:07 +0000 http://imperfectfamilies.com/?p=3772#comment-20102 I disagree that saying “I hate you” is disrespectful. As you said, it’s the best approximation they have of what they are feeling at the time. Feelings are not disrespectful. When kids are feeling huge anger, they need to know we love them no matter what they do. I have never been angry or hurt by my child saying this. If, as an adult, you find yourself emotionally wounded by the words of a child too young to even identify their feelings in a sophisticated way, a little soul-searching of your own is called for (as a general statement, not directed at you personally.) I say “I understand you feel that way right now. I still love you and let me know when you want to talk.” My 5 year old often responds with “I don’t love you anymore and I don’t want to talk to you anymore!” or something along those lines. I just say “I understand.” When she’s calmed down she tells me she’s sorry, she loves me, and we discuss how she was really feeling. Now we get less “I hate you” and more “I’m really frustrated,” “I hate it when you say that, “saying no to me makes me so ANGRY,” etc. She has some BIG feelings but we are helping her deal with them little by little.

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