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How to stop tantrums according to brain research

A Brain Based Way to Stop Your Child's Tantrum

Use the latest brain research to help your child stay calm and manage their big feelings without a huge meltdown. Learn how to stop tantrums - even if they've already started - with this 2-step approach! We're leaving the zoo.  The car is parked at the far end of the lot. It's going to be a trek and my 3 kids are already tired. My … [Read more...]

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Is Your Child Stressed?

Is Your Child Stressed?

It's hard to imagine a 4-year-old feeling stressed. Why would they experience anything other than pure happiness - playing all day, snacks, nap-time!? Sounds like a great life. But think of all the challenges in your child's daily routine.  They are constantly learning - socially, emotionally, physically, and mentally.  And with learning … [Read more...]

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9 Communication Tips to End the Grunts, Groans, and Eye-Rolls from Your Kids

Tired of the grunts, groans, eye-rolls, and "I don't knows" when you try to talk with your kids? Try these 9 tips instead.

Do you ever feel like talking to your kids is harder than it has to be? You: "How was school?" Your Child: "Fine." You: "So, what did you do?" Your Child: "Nothing." You: "Come on, I know you did something." Your Child (rolling his eyes): "Come on Mom. Leave me alone." Ugh. Round and round you go, and it always ends the same … [Read more...]

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How to Mend a Broken Relationship With Your Son or Daughter

How to repair your relationship with your child.

You're arguing constantly and rarely talk anymore. You're not sure when things started drifting, but your relationship has definitely changed. Thankfully, you can still repair the relationship! These 7 tips will help you learn how to mend a broken relationship with your son or daughter, even if it seems impossible. I know it's bad, but I don't … [Read more...]

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7 Questions to Ask Your Kids Instead of “Why?”

   You walk into your child's room.  Toys are EVERYWHERE.   Your son forgot the book he needs for his homework...again. Your daughter refuses to go to her school dance. After you bought the dress.  A very normal response to these infuriating situations is to ask: "Why?!?!" "Why did you take out every single toy you own?" "Why did you forget your … [Read more...]

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Let Your Children Feel Their Feelings

It's hard to see our kids sad, frustrated or discouraged. Instead of rushing to rescue them, let your children feel their feelings using these positive parenting tips!

There is nothing better than hearing the sound of children laughing. Seeing your son confidently climb the ladder to the tallest slide. Getting a giant bear hug from your daughter. Ahh...the joys of parenting. Unfortunately, with the joy, there are also the hard times. Arguments, yelling, conflict and competition. Failure, disappointment and … [Read more...]

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Get your kids to listen using this simple tip

Listen up! How changing one thing may get your child's attention

Do you feel like your kids never listen? They tune you out, ignore your requests, and respond disrespectfully? It's time to try something new. It may seem counter-productive, but it may be the key to getting a reply from your children. Instead of talking more...try talking less. Imagine being questioned, reminded and directed repeatedly … [Read more...]

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Anger is a Feeling Too!

Many parents try to send their children the message, "Whatever emotion you feel is ok." However, when their child expresses anger, parents often send a different message - anger is NOT ok. "Stop that!   Calm down! That's enough!" We don't mean to send our kids mixed messages. Unfortunately, anger is a tricky emotion. Very few people have … [Read more...]

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