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When Kids Don’t Want to Talk About What They Did Wrong

October 30, 2018 by nicoleschwarz

10 tips to use when your child avoids taking responsibility or talking about what they did wrong.

You believe it's important that your child admit their mistakes and own up to behavior that hurts others or is unacceptable. Unfortunately, when you try to talk to them, you get resistance - blame, avoidance, and "I don't know." Here are some tips to try when your child doesn't want to talk about what they did wrong.  According to brain … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Feelings & Emotions, Parenting is Hard Work, Positive Discipline, Positive Parenting Tagged With: Angry Kids, Anxious Kids, Apologizing, Consequences, Kids, Power Struggles, Teens

How to Help Your Aggressive Toddler or Preschooler

March 30, 2015 by nicoleschwarz

At preschool pickup, the teacher pulls you aside. She has some concerns about your child's behavior. She reminds you that there is a zero tolerance policy for biting and aggressive acts like kicking and hitting may result in suspension. You're a little shocked to hear the news, but you know what she's talking about. There are times when he … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Feelings & Emotions, Kids & Anger, Positive Discipline, Positive Parenting Tagged With: Apologizing, Consequences, Kids, School, Toddlers

Beyond “I’m Sorry:” Teach Your Child To Apologize

March 21, 2012 by nicoleschwarz

Instead of forcing your child to say "I'm sorry" help them understand how to make a heartfelt apology.

You heard the smack from the kitchen. Followed by wailing. Entering the room, you demand, "Tell your sister you're sorry." "Soorrry." It reeks with sarcasm. "Say 'sorry' like you mean it," you prompt again. "I'm not sorry!" he yells back. What?! How dare he say that. Teaching your child to apologize. You are probably all too … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Communication, Feelings & Emotions, Positive Parenting Tagged With: Apologizing, Building Relationships, Siblings, Teens, Toddlers

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