7 Summer Survival Strategies For Parents

 

School’s out!   Hooray for summer vacation…or maybe not.

Let’s face it, summer break may be full of fun family activities, but it may also mean more arguing, less compliance with chores, and those dreaded words: “I’m Bored!”

Before you start counting the days until school starts again, check this list and see if there is anything you would like to implement in your home this summer.

Here’s your summer survival guide for the next few weeks:

• Set a Routine: Even the most basic structure can be a great help in the summer.   Most children feel comforted when there is a predictable pattern to their day or week.

• But also Be flexible: Too much planning can get in the way of fun.   Teach your children that it is ok to be spontaneous and to make adaptations when plans change.

• Clarify Expectations: Summer often comes with a laid back attitude. Talk with your kids about any changes to chores, curfew, allowance or spending money in advance.

• Brainstorm together: Parents do not need to be the activity coordinators or problem-solvers. Work together to create a list of fun activities or find solutions to conflicts.

• Honor space: Some children are emotionally drained after social activities.   Give them time to recharge by setting aside time for reading, individual play or naps.

• Help Someone Else: If your children are complaining or bored, it may be time to focus on others.   Encourage them to do random acts of kindness or sign up to volunteer.

• Take a Deep Breath: Not every summer day is full of sunshine and laughter.   Rather than being hard on yourself, give yourself permission to take a break and relax.

Finding balance is never easy. It’s especially hard when the routine changes. Keep it simple this summer. When things seem to get off track, focus on re-connecting with your kids first. Then, look at this list and see which area could be improved.

Summer will be over before you know it…no, really, it will!

What tips do you have for surviving summer break?