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Parenting advice can be confusing. Simplify the relationship with your child with this one simple tip.

Simplify Your Parenting: Focus on the Relationship

  Lately, I’ve been feeling like parenting information has been swirling around me like a tornado. It’s very easy to start doubting our decisions…”I’m using time-out, but some people don’t, am I scarring my child for life?” Beating ourselves up when we feel that we’ve failed…“I just yelled at my

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You want to be a positive, encouraging parent, but sometimes things don't go as planned. Here's the key to a calm parenting response!

The key to making a good parenting decision

  Your toddler is having a tantrum in the middle of Target.   Or, maybe your tween is having a tantrum in the middle of Target. You look around.   People are starting to stare, most are actually glaring.   You feel judged. You feel like a horrible parent. In

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It's hard to see our kids sad, frustrated or discouraged. Instead of rushing to rescue them, let your children feel their feelings using these positive parenting tips!

Let Your Children Feel Their Feelings

There is nothing better than hearing the sound of children laughing. Seeing your son confidently climb the ladder to the tallest slide. Getting a giant bear hug from your daughter. Ahh…the joys of parenting. Unfortunately, with the joy, there are also the hard times. Arguments, yelling, conflict and competition. Failure,

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Changing the Definition of “Fair” in Your Family

In our house, fair doesn’t mean “equal,” fair means “getting what you need.” My youngest daughter had access to a cell phone years before our older daughter. Despite the fact that this is potentially “unfair,” there was no fighting, no sense of injustice, and no demand for equality. How was

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Parents: Master the “10-Second Lecture” in 4 Easy Steps

  Your child comes home from school with a note from the teacher listing 6 missing assignments.   This is the first you’ve heard of the missing homework, so your parenting brain probably decides: “This is a great time for a lecture!” You sit your child down at the table

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How to Help Your Child with School Challenges (Without Overreacting)

William had a horrible day at school.   He comes in the door, slams his bag on the floor and starts to tell you what happened. “There’s a new boy in my class…and the teacher sat him right next to me! The new boy took my pencil, he punched my

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How to Create an After School Routine that Works for Your Child

  It’s a new school year, which means it’s time to figure out your new after school routine! One often-overlooked time of day is the transition from school to home. Some children fly out the classroom door with smiles and cheers of “freedom!” Other children walk in the door of

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Get your kids to listen using this simple tip

Do you feel like your kids never listen? They tune you out, ignore your requests, and respond disrespectfully? It’s time to try something new. It may seem counter-productive, but it may be the key to getting a reply from your children. Instead of talking more…try talking less. Imagine being questioned,

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How to Help When your Kids are Bored

The thought of seeing your kids draped lifelessly over the couch cushions, saying those dreaded words, “I’m bored,” is enough to make any parent panic. You know what comes next…whining, sibling fighting, following you around the house demanding that you find something fun for them to play. It won’t matter

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Sometimes, simple is best. Here are 25 simple parenting phrases that still make a big impact on your kids. When parenting advice gets complicated, go back to the basics using these phrases.

25 Simple (But Powerful) Parenting Phrases

  It’s not always easy to know what to say to our kids. You don’t want to yell, you don’t want to make things worse, and you don’t want to make things more complicated. Sometimes you  just want a few simple go-to parenting phrases. A phrase that is still powerful

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