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What's normal behavior for a toddler? How do you discipline without using timeouts? Here are 10 tips for parenting your 2-year-old (and your 3-year-old too!)

Positive Parenting Tips for Your 2-year-old

What’s normal behavior for a 2-year old? How do you discipline a toddler without using timeouts? Here are 10 positive parenting tips to help you parent your 2-year-old (and your 3-year-old too!). “Juice.” Your toddler says, banging on the refrigerator door. “Sorry honey, we’re out of juice. How about some…”

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Are you frustrated with your kids' behavior. Tired of all the arguments? Maybe it's time to zoom out. To look at your parenting through a different lens.

Looking at parenting through a wide-angle lens

Remember those nights, shuffling around the nursery trying to calm the shrill cries of your newborn? Or, jingling skittles in a  jar to encourage your child to actually make it to the potty chair this time? When you’re going through these stages it feels like life is standing still. Like

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One critical observation to avoid your child’s next tantrum.

You know running errands takes it’s toll on the kids, but it had to be done. Now, it’s that awkward hour when it’s too early to eat dinner and too late for a snack. The kids are restless and irritable. Tension is in the air. Then it hits you —

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Worried about your child falling behind? Do you play a role in your child's development? Find out 3 things every parent should know about child development, written by a developmental psychologist.

3 Things About Child Development Every Parent Should Know

  Did you sign up for those “Your baby is 17 weeks today” emails when your kids were born? They were great unless your child didn’t line up with the recommended milestone. And what about now that your child is older? Do you ever wonder if they are on track?

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You've spent all day together, and your child is still begging for your attention. Here are some suggestions for setting boundaries with your attention-seeking child.

Setting Boundaries for your Attention-Seeking Child

It’s Friday night. Your husband is out of town, so it’s just you and the kids. Your suggestion to have a movie night is met with cheers and excitement. After the popcorn bowls are handed around, you start the show. Snuggling on the couch. Laughing through the funny parts, sniffling

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No mom wants to hear the words "I hate you" from their child. But there is a message in this misbehavior. Don't miss it! Use these tips for how to respond.

What to do When Your Child Says, “I Hate You.”

“I hate you!” he yells as he slams the bedroom door. The words hang in the air as you stand there unable to move. Within seconds, your body is flooded with anger. You bang on the door yelling, “How dare you say that to me?!” And then a thought grips

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50 Simple Ways to Connect With Your Kids

Your family is busy. Sometimes, you get to the end of the day and you realize you really haven’t even LOOKED at your kids. You’ve just shuffled them from breakfast, to the bus, to homework, to bed. And then, the guilt sets in. You know connection is important, but it’s

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How to respond when your child whines, cries, or argues to get their way!

Feeling Manipulated by your Child? Try this Response.

  As soon as you say “no,” the waterworks begin. “But mom!” your son says, dramatically flailing himself on the floor. After a few seconds, the drama turns ugly. Now he’s pounding his fists on the tile and screaming wildly. It’s just too much to bear. “Fine. Here’s one more.

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To the exhausted parent: You’re not doing it wrong.

You close the door as hot tears stream down your face. Slumping to the floor, head in your hands, the scene replays in your mind. The power struggle. The yelling. The numerous attempts to interrupt the chaos with empathy and reasoning. Nothing worked. Where did things go wrong? What are

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Your Parenting. Redefined.

“I wish I was more like her,” you say to the computer screen. “She’s such a fun mom.” Then, turning to your kids you announce, “Let’s do a craft project!” An hour later, one child is in tears, two are arguing over a tube of glitter glue, and you are

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