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Discipline is not the most important thing about parenting. Learn 3 things that matter more than finding the "perfect" consequence for your kids.

Parenting: Three Things That Matter More Than Discipline

I’m thrilled to have Rebecca Eanes, author of Positive Parenting: An Essential Guide sharing three things that are more important that discipline in parenting. Check out her bio at the bottom of this post for more information about her new book! Tons of parenting books and articles tell us how we

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Not sure what to say or do when your kid is acting out or melting down? Try asking yourself this question.

Maybe this is the question parents should be asking.

I was so upset. I didn’t have a choice. The decision was made and it caught me off guard. Suddenly I was in fight-or-filght mode. I was angry! I texted a friend about the situation: “I didn’t even have a say! This was decided for me…no one even asked how

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a simple visualization to change the way you respond to your kids

A simple visualization that will dramatically change the way you respond to your kids

It’s a lazy Saturday. One of those rare weekends when you have nothing planned. Your kids have been parked in front of the TV all morning. It’s a beautiful day, so you innocently announce, “Alright, guys! Time to turn the TV off and go outside!” Suddenly, they snap out of

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Kids off school for summer vacation? Use these tips from moms who've been there to make your summer break a success!

Moms share their secrets to a successful summer break

School’s out for summer! Which means summer break is here. (If it’s not, it will be here soon.) Have you started panicking yet? Or are you organized and calm, ready to embrace the chaos? As a work-from-home mom, my days are about to get complicated. So, I turned to you

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Waiting for your child to manage big emotions or self-regulate can be a long process. Look for glimmers of hope and maturity along the way.

Finding a glimmer of hope when your child struggles with self-regulation

I was digging through a random junk drawer when I finally found them. The colored pens I use to keep my schedule organized. I had been looking for them for days. I mentioned this casually to my kids, “Huh. Did you guys know these pens were in here?” My daughter

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Why your kids need you to step-up (but it’s not what you think)

Battle lines are drawn. Your child is not giving up without a fight. As they dig in their heels, you feel pressured to stand your ground. Panic sets in, “If I lose this fight, he will never do anything I ask ever again!” You start to yell. Threaten. Punish. Anything

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Is sibling rivalry driving you nuts? Tired of the arguing? Your response matters. Learn how you may be causing sibling rivalry (and how to stop!)

10 Ways to Reduce Sibling Rivalry in Your Home

Your daughter crawls over and takes your son’s toy car. He freaks out. Grabbing the car back from the baby. She starts to cry. You swoop in to intervene. Cradling her while you glare at your son, you say, “She’s just a baby. She doesn’t know better.” Setting your daughter

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Where is your parenting village?

My parents live 5 hours away. My best friends live 30 minutes away. In two different directions. I’m a transplant to the area, so I still don’t know the best playgrounds, the popular mommy-and-me groups or the sought-after babysitters. In other words, if I want support, I have to create my own

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Tired of yelling? Want to learn how to stay calm with your kids? Try this calm-down plan for parents.

A Calm-Down Plan (For Parents)

A quick scroll through your Pinterest feed displays cool-down games, feeling-face posters, and jars of glitter floating gently through brightly-colored water. All with the goal of helping your kids calm down. This is a great goal. Kids need to learn how to manage their emotions and stay calm under pressure.

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What to say when your child says, "I'm stupid" or "No one loves me." Plus, ideas for creating a positive atmosphere in your home!

How to Respond to Your Child’s Negative Self-Talk

No parent wants to hear their child say, “I’m dumb” or “I’m stupid,” or even worse, “No one loves me.” Rather than panicking or minimizing their experience, use these tips to respond to your child’s negative self-talk. “I’m so dumb,” your child mumbles at the kitchen table. He bangs his fist

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