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Your Child Wants You

I know it seems like your child only cares about toys and video games. But the longer I work with children and families, the more I have come to realize this truth: what your child wants more than anything else is you. Learn more about this important relationship building strategy

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9 Tips to Get Kids to Listen

  I know you’re tired of repeating yourself. If only your kids would just listen the first time! Check out my guest post on The Realistic Mama to learn 9 simple tips to get kids to listen. Demanding, nagging and yelling will not get your kids to listen. In fact,

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10 Tips to Get Your Kids Talking

It’s not always easy to get your kids talking. Check out my guest post on Your Modern Family to learn 10 tips to get your kids to open up! Another day. Another silent drive home from school. “How was your day?” was met with grunts and shrugs. Any further attempts

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How to Help Your Cautious Child Feel Confident

  *This post is part of the Raising Resilient Children series, which features advice from Mental Health Professionals. Find tips for helping your children remain strong through life’s  challenges, manage anxiety and overcome stress.   Rose and Katie are playing on the swing set. Rose runs up the slide and

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Tired of your kids ignoring you or giving you one word answers? Here are 5 reasons your kids don't talk, and how to change this pattern!

5 Reasons Your Kids Don’t Talk To You

  “I try to talk to him, but he just grunts a one-word reply.” “I never know what’s going on in school, my kids never say anything more than, ‘fine’ or ‘ok.’” So frustrating, right? You make the effort and are met with silence. Unfortunately, we can’t change our kids,

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Learn how to sift through parenting advice, find what works, and listen to your parenting gut instinct.

Do you trust your parenting gut-feeling?

Parenting advice is not a new thing.  Before the days of social media, there were “well-meaning” people at the grocery store ready and willing to give you their two-cents about your parenting. But now, it’s everywhere. We can’t avoid it. We’re lost in a sea of advice. And while there

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Tired of fighting with your kids at bed time? Does bed time take too long? Try these tips to make a bedtime routine that works.

How to create a bedtime routine that works

  It’s bedtime. Or, at least it should be. Instead, Lillian is running circles around her bedroom, asking to play dress-up and negotiating for another story. You’re exhausted. You’ve been trying to get her in bed for over an hour now, and nothing is working. Creating a bedtime routine can

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This one response can change the mood in your house immediately! If your child has been acting out, yelling, screaming, or having tantrums and meltdowns!, give this response a try

The Absolute Best Way to Respond when Your Child’s Acting Out

  To say that it’s been a long day would be putting it mildly. The power-struggles have been endless. The whining has been constant. And, of course, there was the “I’m-not-leaving-the-store-without-a-toy” meltdown in aisle 9. No matter what you do, it seems that your child’s main goal is to make

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Lessons learned after my daughter's very public meltdown.

5 Things I Learned After My Daughter’s (Very Public) Meltdown

We knew there was a storm brewing from the moment my daughter woke up. Crabby isn’t the right word. We’ll call it “off,” just not right. It was a walking on eggshells kind of day. Still, we had errands to run, so we headed out to the mall, hoping things

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How to Help Your Aggressive Toddler or Preschooler

At preschool pickup, the teacher pulls you aside. She has some concerns about your child’s behavior. She reminds you that there is a zero tolerance policy for biting and aggressive acts like kicking and hitting may result in suspension. You’re a little shocked to hear the news, but you know

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