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The Importance of a Family Motto

Do you have a family motto? (Here’s an example from our family) You’ve probably seen beautifully written examples on Pinterest. But family mottos are more than just art! Taking the time to sit down and create a family motto can help you be a better parent! Read more about writing

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Positive Parenting for Imperfect Families

  It”s 8:30 on a school night. My daughter is supposed to be getting ready for bed. Instead, she’s refusing to hand over the iPad, demanding “5 more minutes.” I’m trying hard not to yell, but I can feel my blood pressure rising. I scan the stack of half-read parenting

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The teachable moment you might be missing

Parents hear a lot about finding “teachable moments” in their day. Opportunities to teach their kids right from wrong or to point out a valuable lesson. Unfortunately, finding teachable moments doesn’t always come naturally. Most parents clump their family’s values and important lessons into lengthy lectures given at the height

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Help Your Energetic or Distracted Child Focus

You’ve probably lost count of the times you have given your son a simple command, like “Go clean your room,” only to find him (minutes later) jumping on his bed, surrounded by toys. Obviously no cleaning has occurred. Instead, like every time before, he got sidetracked. Distracted. It’s challenging to

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Still having power struggles with your kids? This might be the reason. Plus, alternatives to try instead!

How to stop having power struggles with your 3-year-old

It’s exhausting going back and forth with your kids about everything from getting in the car seat to eating their veggies. This tip will help you explore your options and decrease the power struggles with your 3-year-old (and kids of any age!) Setting the plate in front of him, you

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Sometimes, I don’t want to spend time with my kids

  Positive parenting focuses a lot on the importance of connection. It’s a pattern of behavior that lays the foundation for good interactions and a strong relationship for the long-term. Blah, blah, blah. You know that spending time with your kids is important. You know that you should be having

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Many parents rescue their anxious child instead of helping them deal with the feeling until it fades. Learn how to support your child using the "anxiety arch" explanation

Do you make this mistake with your anxious child?

    Sam has been afraid of dogs since he was 2 years old. A dog knocked him over on the playground and he felt scared. Now, 5 years later, he still avoids every dog he sees. Since you hate for him to feel anxious, you’ve taken the role of

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How to Manage Toddler Tantrums

  The car seat never used to be a problem. You’d plop your infant into the seat, and away you’d go. Suddenly, going anywhere in the car means that you’ll first have to endure an epic toddler tantrum. What happened? Where did your sweet little baby go? Toddler tantrums can

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We've been told to be consistent, but there are limits to holding a rule when it doesn't make sense. Try flexibility instead!

Why Flexibility is More Important than Consistency in Parenting

  For many years parents have been told to be consistent. To follow through with the consequences we set. Not to back down when we’ve set a limit. This is a good strategy in theory, but it also binds us as parents. We make an impulsive decision to take away

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Connect with Your Kids through (Imperfect) Play

  Playing with your kids doesn’t have to be a chore. If you’re struggling to  connecting with your kids  through play, here are some fantastic alternatives! Thanks to Janine from Encourage Play for  these suggestions. As parents, we know we should play with our kids but we sometimes struggle with

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