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Perfectionism and parenting don't always mix. Here are 4 ways to embrace imperfection in parenting.

Learning to Embrace Imperfect Parenting

Thank you to April Finley for this guest post. Read more about her in the bio below! I’m a perfectionist. I remember when that felt like a positive thing: when I was in school, it meant I generally did my best, double-checked my work, and completed my homework moments after

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Parenting a highly verbal, intelligent 3 year old can be challenging. Here are some tips!

My child won’t stop talking! How to parent a “mature” 3-year-old

Parenting a highly verbal, intelligent 3-year-old or 4-year-old can be challenging. Some days it seems like your child won’t stop talking – the questions are endless and the commentary is ongoing. Plus, even though they seem older, they still act very immature. Here are 6 tips to help you parent

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5 Hidden messages in your intense child's words. How to respond when your child says, "I hate you" or "I can't calm down!" and more!

5 hidden messages in your intense child’s words (and how to respond)

The kicking on the back of your seat is getting more intense. “That’s enough!” you say, glancing at the grimacing face in the back seat. “You can’t make me!” she responds, kicking harder now. Your muscles tense. You hold your breath. You want to scream, “Oh, I can too make

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A simple visualization to help you feel calm and confident in stressful parenting situations

A simple visualization to help you stay calm and confident in stressful parenting situations

Glancing at the recipe, you gather ingredients, preheat the oven, and wrestle the correct pan out of the overcrowded cabinet. You’re getting a late start. Again. Without warning, a thundering roar fills the kitchen. Your kids barrel in, all talking at once, demanding that you hear “their side” of the

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Tips to help you reduce competition between siblings

How to reduce competition between siblings

Anything can turn into a competition between your kids. Who has the tallest french fry. Who has the most homework. Who brushed their teeth more efficiently. Seriously. Nothing is off limits for those two. And, no matter how hard you try to tell them “it doesn’t matter who has the

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It's hard when your child prefers their other parent. Here are some tips to help you cope!

How to respond when your child prefers one parent

It’s heartbreaking when your child pulls away from you and reaches for another caregiver. Thankfully, there are things you can do to survive this difficult stage. Here are some tips to use when your child prefers one parent over the other (BONUS: suggestions for the “preferred”…and the “non-preferred” parent!)  

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Why kids say bad words (and how to respond)

Why your child uses bad words (and how to stop it)

Maybe, at first, you laugh out loud because it caught you off guard. Or maybe, you’re shocked because you don’t use that kind of language in your home and you want it to stop immediately! Whatever the reason, if you’re tired of hearing potty talk, inappropriate language, swearing, or unwanted phrases

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How do you respond when your child does something wrong, even though they know better?

What to do when your child knows better but does it anyway

The call from the school came out of the blue. Your child pushed someone at recess. The other kid went to the nurse. Your child went to the principal’s office. Furious, you scan through a list of possible consequences. Apparently, everything you’ve tried to teach about kindness was useless. Or,

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Ease the sibling rivalry in your house by talking about these 10 rules for sharing!

Sharing toys with siblings: How to stop the arguments

Sharing does not come naturally to some kids…which means you’re constantly dealing with arguments about “who’s turn it is” and “who had it first.” Rather than forcing them to give up their favorite toy or engaging in a power struggle, use these 10 “sharing rules” to help your kids practice

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Tired of the power struggles? Responding with empathy is a great way to teach your child and to disengage from those big battles!

Using Empathy to Avoid a Power Struggle

  The bus drove away before we could get to the stop. Sighing, I turn to my daughter, “I guess I’m driving you to school today.” Panic filled her eyes. “No way. It’s embarrassing to be a car-rider.” Confused, I brushed aside her remarks. “It’s not embarrassing. Come on, let’s

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