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Positive Parenting for Imperfect Families

  It”s 8:30 on a school night. My daughter is supposed to be getting ready for bed. Instead, she’s refusing to hand over the iPad, demanding “5 more minutes.” I’m trying hard not to yell, but I can feel my blood pressure rising. I scan the stack of half-read parenting

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The teachable moment you might be missing

Parents hear a lot about finding “teachable moments” in their day. Opportunities to teach their kids right from wrong or to point out a valuable lesson. Unfortunately, finding teachable moments doesn’t always come naturally. Most parents clump their family’s values and important lessons into lengthy lectures given at the height

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Help Your Energetic or Distracted Child Focus

You’ve probably lost count of the times you have given your son a simple command, like “Go clean your room,” only to find him (minutes later) jumping on his bed, surrounded by toys. Obviously no cleaning has occurred. Instead, like every time before, he got sidetracked. Distracted. It’s challenging to

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Still having power struggles with your kids? This might be the reason. Plus, alternatives to try instead!

How to stop having power struggles with your 3-year-old

It’s exhausting going back and forth with your kids about everything from getting in the car seat to eating their veggies. This tip will help you explore your options and decrease the power struggles with your 3-year-old (and kids of any age!) Setting the plate in front of him, you

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How to Manage Toddler Tantrums

  The car seat never used to be a problem. You’d plop your infant into the seat, and away you’d go. Suddenly, going anywhere in the car means that you’ll first have to endure an epic toddler tantrum. What happened? Where did your sweet little baby go? Toddler tantrums can

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We've been told to be consistent, but there are limits to holding a rule when it doesn't make sense. Try flexibility instead!

Why Flexibility is More Important than Consistency in Parenting

  For many years parents have been told to be consistent. To follow through with the consequences we set. Not to back down when we’ve set a limit. This is a good strategy in theory, but it also binds us as parents. We make an impulsive decision to take away

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Using Empathy to Connect with Your Kids

  We talk a lot about using empathy with our kids. Here is my guest post on Positive Parenting Connection with a simple explanation of what empathy is as well as 3 suggestions for using empathy to connect with your kids. Many parents are good at responding with empathy when

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Turn your Picky Eater into a Healthy Eater

  I’m excited to have Orlena Kerek guest posting today! Mealtime battles can be challenging, so I turned to an expert for advice about turning your picky eater into a healthy eater: If you have a picky eater in the family, it can turn mealtimes into a real struggle. Either

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7 Simple Parenting Hacks That Are Surprisingly Effective

  Parenting advice can get pretty overwhelming. So, today, we’re going to take it easy. Instead of making life more complicated, let’s simplify things using these parenting tips. (Bonus: They really work!) 7 Simple Parenting Hacks 1. Timers: Many kids respond better to an alarm than a parent’s voice. Timers

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Don't you wish your kids would just listen? Why does everything turn into a power struggle? This positive parenting tip will help you set firm limits, while still treating your kids with respect. Read sample scripts and learn more about how to eliminate power struggles in your hIf you're tired of the power struggles with your kids, it's time to try something new. Learn how to use positive parenting to set firm limits in your house.

What You Need to Know About Setting Limits Without A Power Struggle

Turning off the Ipad, getting dressed, taking out the trash…if power struggles are a daily occurrence in your home, it’s time to try something new. These step-by-step scripts will help you use positive parenting when setting limits (they even with strong-willed kids!). Wouldn’t it be nice if your kids just

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